It’s about having right amount of pent up emotions. Anything less or more will sound gibberish.

Just defend by the facts of words. Saying the facts and realities is the hardest enemy of war.

Just calm

Speaking from a factual standpoint and not an emotional standpoint.

Trying to speak in the perspective that the other person can I understand and being vulnerable

To be open minded and speaking the actual fact

Listen before you respond. Frame the response to make your position authoritative - use facts, emotions, power words and all that gives you authority in as least words as possible.

an argument in which people or groups criticize and disagree with each other publicly and repeatedly for usually a long time

Going too far with words has a positive implication too. It is an experiement on oneself . At times, going too far with words helps one to know oneself and the surroundings like never before. The response from within and outside in that moment will be a learning experience.To go too far with words,let your emotions flow out of your mouth unfiltered.

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White hot irony & stone cold sarcasm

Y’all are talking about polite conversation not going to war with words!