People always go back to Deborah🤦🏻♀️ But do they notice that she led from an oasis? NOT from a palace? NOT as a man would? They had to seek her out, she didn’t command & lead like a male, but more as an Oracle. She did not want to lead either, it was a curse on the land, it was not a proof for women but Against women as leaders.
In this feminist province I live in, a woman is not even allowed to take her own husband’s name. I would say the vast majority of women who do wed would much prefer take his name but during the time that they are taking care of kids, those hard to marry types, having nothing more important to do, lobby the government to pass laws that will probably never be made for them cuz they are too ugly, resentful, angry, hateful and feministic or lesbian for any men to be interested in them. They love the government to change the laws for women claiming that it’s their right cuz they are women but let’s face it. They don’t even want to ever get married anyway. It’s just all about control. They might not know it but we know they are on a mission for their boss, the wicked one and as long as they don’t actively destroy, they aren’t happy... destruction will never bring you happiness and one day, you will be judged by God.
Marriage should always come with God s Grace if that person was sent to you by God almighty himself! Without God in the midst, very few marriages survive!
Get yourself a woman outside of the western culture and you should prosper and you will then certainly be able to say: for me and my family, we will serve the Lord.